A Tribute to Mike Eastman
My friend and colleague Ajay Caleb has written a lovely piece to be read at Mike’s service this Sunday:
Reflections on Being a (Golf) Gentleman
The game of golf was an important part of Mike’s life. The fact that we are present at a golf course today is an indication of that. Mike had spoken of his ambitions of pursuing golf professionally when he was a teen.
Even though that dream did not become a reality, those early years out on the course instilled essential character qualities in Mike. Character on a golf course is found in those who, although they have skill and ability, graciously encourage those of us who do not.
Exhibiting such humility when faced with those of lesser skill surely is neither art nor science. It stems from a simple philosophy of seeing others as who they are, and putting them first.
Having played golf with Mike, it was not surprising to see how his balanced approach to the game – taking the good and the bad in stride – only spurred him on to improve his next stroke, or the next game.
Mike carried this philosophy into his daily life as well. Life’s continual ups and downs never seemed to upset him. He had realized that the roughs, sand traps, and water hazards – whether found on the golf course or in life – were only minor, or temporary setbacks.
Dwelling on them would accomplish nothing more than unnecessary regret, remorse, and rejection of any gains or victories.
Instead, Mike saw each of life’s daily challenges as an opportunity to improve his score, to do better. Winning was not the issue. The focus was on how he played the game.
A colleague at work described Mike’s influence: “Mike was the one who made [the work place] human.” This singular attention to the needs of others is something that characterized Mike.
Mike brought his brand of humanity and humour to the workplace, and in so doing, encouraged many through their times in the deep weeds.
I will always count it a privilege to have known Mike, and trust that his legacy of courtesy, good humour and determination will live on through all of us in our personal lives, in the community, and in the workplace.
Good-bye Mike. Thank you for enriching the lives of so many, and for your courage, example, wit, and wisdom. We will miss you.
Here’s a printable version of Ajay’s Tribute.